Millennials Are Different, The Church Should Listen

I am a millennial who has left the church (and indeed felt very unwelcome in it when I was there).  Things have changed and the older generation doesn’t like what they see so instead of trying to adapt they double down on what worked for them. Sex has largely...

Talking Points

What I like to say to everyone that parrots all the talking points of the Christian and therapeutic world.  Participate in the delusions you perpetuate.  If you believe a person has innate worth treat the people lower than you like humans instead of making excuses as...

bitterness guilting

There is a lot of bitterness-guilting that goes on in Christianity.  If you suffer and aren’t serene and forgiving and jumping for joy about it you are guilted for being bitter.  This is a sibling of the whole romanticizing of suffering thing.  But most of...

Before Therapy Can Work

This is blatantly obvious but for therapy to work one has to trust in the authority of the therapist.  I had a therapist lead me away from Christianity at an extremely vulnerable time in my life (just got a bipolar diagnosis, had no job, the girl I wanted to marry was...

Ramblings on Consumerism

Often times forces acting on behalf of the rich will demonize consumerism (sometimes known as materialism).  They want to drill in your head the idea that money doesn’t buy happiness.  While it doesn’t guarantee happiness, it does give one fertile ground...
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